I Feel Like Such An Idiot

I wasted my time on someone who never cared about me in the first place.. I really should’ve listened to everyone who told me to leave him months ago, but I kept telling myself that it was just a rough patch in our relationship. Well, now I guess I learned the hard way.

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SoFine · 46-50, F

You to you is your most important relationship that you will ever have.
Your true love is your self-love, first have this in place, then seek love from a place of fill. People for the most ADD to us, they can't fill you, that is your job for you.

You complete you
You validate you

In long-term relationships, you will get triggered, that is old hurts that are not healed will be triggered. That is why they are hard, many fail, they push each others insecure button.

In the mean time, find ways to build you up, get into movement or hobbies that give you an sense of you. Be happy in you as you.

Love you first, then this love will have the soil it needs to grow.