I’m trying so hard to be receptive to him.

What did he do?

I know you said he got drunk, and got sick. Was that it? Was he then mean to you? Forgive me, I am confused. I thought you adored him. Sorry, I am trying to think of what he did that shattered that.

But no need to discuss. And it is not my business. I just want you to feel better.

He really complicated things and that's not okay. But he loves you so much.

You can't help it. Maybe he's been trying to keep up appearances, to hide his own anguish, if so, he will have to learn to cope without pretending he's Superman.

Balance. Remember and Look at the good. Then see if it outweighs the rest. That is life. Everyone has problems and demons. Some are not so obvious.

Maybe you have to allow yourself to accept whatever he has to give at this point, even if he falls short again. Warts and all.

He just wants what's best for you.

If you trust this fella, let it fly!!