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You know what's hard? Forgiving someone who wronged the person you love, especially when you had been nice to them without having known their deeds.

But then now you know. You know what they have done to those you love. And you know they don't dare be sorry or say sorry to those you love. Yet they expect you to be nice to them still.

But I know now!!
It is easier to forgive someone who'd wronged me than to forgive someone who'd hurt or humiliated or mocked or abused or slandered people I love the most.

I take responsibilities seriously. Guardian. Defense. Protector. Provider.
So no, I don't really need them on my table. I don't even want to see them unless they're brave enough to apologize.

But then...is this my own hypocrisy? My stubborn whim? Why is there guilt in my heart?
Dethmoore · 31-35, M
I’ve been working on forgiving people. Some people can be forgiven and you don’t even remember what they did. Some people did something so bad that I still think about it for days after remembering what they did. It’s haunting.

I think it’s best to just forgive them all the same, like just accept and move on. Even if it haunts me, I try to forgive. The reason for that is because the past can’t be changed and holding a grudge against them hurts me the more.

We know better about people that hurt us or our loved ones. I usually just dissociate myself with them. I won’t deal with them ever again. Even if they’re on fire, I won’t piss on them. I don’t hate them. They simply just don’t exist in my world anymore.

Sometimes we have to take actions to protect people we love. It’s up to you when to take up actions. But be careful not to offend people. There’s a person that I don’t like at all, but for the sake of maintaining peace for everyone else, I don’t interact with said person.
Fairydust · F
I feel you! [quote]

It is easier to forgive someone who'd wronged me than to forgive someone who'd hurt or humiliated or mocked or abused or slandered people I love the most[/quote]

This is what I find hard, especially when it’s my children.
Kasiyat · 36-40, F
@Fairydust @Casheyane yes!

 
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