This is an unfortunate by-product of sexual conversation becoming so prevalent online. While you would hope that SW would be an oasis in that virtual desert, the reality is that so many - especially men_ have gown so accustomed to the freedom provided by anonymity affords that they tend to look upon any venue as a platform to find sexually fueled conversation.
While I do enjoy intimate chat and have engaged in such, that by no means defines me. Nor is it my go-to for enjoying someone's company online. A time and a place, so to speak.