How hard is it ?

I’ve conceded that I’ll likely die alone because I am genuine. Nobody seems to be looking for genuine though… they want makeup, money, servitude and for me to be perfect 24/7.

I think I’m a catch, but I haven’t met anyone in years that I didn’t intimidate with authenticity. They end up lying to “deserve” me….

Society is too fucked up to understand love anymore.

Very difficult. It doesn't help that many women are so cookie cutter with lack of unique interests. Social media has made it worse, because women want to be "trendy" and do what all the other women do. Validation culture, throwaway culture.
I find most women I meet boring now, and without substance. The ones with substance turn out to be crazy.
Women are also more fickle than they've ever been, and if a guy doesn't check EVERY single box, she won't even give him a second date. It's ridiculous.
Many women are just "dating around", hoping to find the perfect match. Ladies, there is no perfect match "Prince Charming" for you, unicorns don't exist! Not saying to settle, but you will need to overlook some less important things on your checklist. They all can't be dealbreakers.

I'm legit reaching a point where I'll hire a surrogate for a child or two, and be a single dad.

The world is boiling over with insufferable social bullshit.

your mother,,my mother,,the mothers around the word,,,,

Finding honest, sincere people who treat others with the same respect with which
they expect to be treated has never , of course, been some easy thing. I do doubt that reality has changed much, from the beginning of this world.

Unless you're the cream of the crop you might as well just give in now
1/5 men die alone

Genuine people, both male and female, are in short supply. Sad.

I've found many honestly, it's just difficult to find a genuine woman that also matches your preferences (if we talk romantically)

Are you talking about online?