Do we need people pleasing abilities? At least a little?
I quit people pleasing all together. I used to enjoy making others happy until it cost me too much. People used me up. Since I stopped, nobody wants anything to do with me anymore.
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Since I stopped, nobody wants anything to do with me anymore.
Good. Who needs fake friends? Honesty is the best policy. We weren't born to be people pleasers.
It's called being true to yourself and loving yourself enough to be free to be genuine and honest.