Do we need people pleasing abilities? At least a little?

I quit people pleasing all together. I used to enjoy making others happy until it cost me too much. People used me up. Since I stopped, nobody wants anything to do with me anymore.

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SW-User

Former people pleaser here
I enjoy being nice to others actually...but up to a point
I have learned my limitations the hard way

ScreamingFox

@SW-User is there any other way? 😔 That's amazing you've figured it out. I'm still recovering from being disappointed people can't be nice to each other.

SW-User

@ScreamingFox I've done nothing remarkable...I just got burnt out and snapped one day and decided I was done being a doormat