If you want to make plans with someone...

Do you:

Speak with them about it in advance, with enough time to take off work and book things?

Or do you tell them you have off next week and give them a bunch of options that they can't even be a part of because they were blindsided and it's too late for them to take off work?

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Roundandroundwego · 61-69

I don't expect anyone to still want to be here in the future, not even in five minutes. Marriage taught me not to be the person in the way. So no plans for me. Obviously people have attractions and friendships with each other and obviously don't mind a few dead bodies or crushed ones if that's what it takes.