If you want to make plans with someone...

Do you:

Speak with them about it in advance, with enough time to take off work and book things?

Or do you tell them you have off next week and give them a bunch of options that they can't even be a part of because they were blindsided and it's too late for them to take off work?

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SW-User

If travel has to be involved then always talk it out in advance.

MarbleMarvel

@SW-User makes sense right? How would someone get off work without knowing to get off work??

SW-User

@MarbleMarvel exactly! Men. 🙄

MarbleMarvel

@SW-User I'm lost lol He said, I'm a man, I shut down... Ummm okay but how do you not do that so we can make plans...

SW-User

@MarbleMarvel communication is not their strong suit, especially if they have more flexibility with their jobs and have someone quick on hand to watch their kid.