If you want to make plans with someone...

Do you:

Speak with them about it in advance, with enough time to take off work and book things?

Or do you tell them you have off next week and give them a bunch of options that they can't even be a part of because they were blindsided and it's too late for them to take off work?

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Justafantasy · M

Depends on the plan. A few hour after work event, a week should be adequate. Can figure out what works for all. A week event needs a few months notice

MarbleMarvel

@Justafantasy if you wanted to make overnight plans that required the other person knowing in advance so they could get off work?

Justafantasy · M

@MarbleMarvel shrug🤷‍♂. If it's a. Upcoming event that we've talked a out going to together I'd expe y someone to say "if I get tickets to this event are you available?" A d the. Confirm upon purchase.

If it's a unplanned night out, between kids and jobs and life I don't bother asking anyone for overnight plans