If you tell someone how you feel and they argue and blame instead of just being kind and giving you a hug...

They are the star of their own movie

It means they dealing with their own issues too

They are emotionally immature and probably defensive because they know they are not treating you right. Also they lack empathy and don't care about you.

It's all about them innit

It says they're not in a very good place with themself.

@ScreamingFox very insensitve and unsympathetic

Must be a therapist

You are a doormat

They just want to use you to wipe their feet.

Zero compassion and understanding

They need to be left