I'm an ENFJ married to an ESTJ. And I wonder why we have problems. I think the two parties should have to take the Myers-Briggs test in order to get a marriage licence.
Your suggestion has merit, but as a tool to help people understand themselves and their partner.
Some couples share so many traits and others share almost nothing but love. Opposite and similar personalities can make a marriage work. But it always takes work and effort. Understanding the differences in your personalities can help.
From my observations, success in marriage is the result of both working at it, all the time..