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What is empathy?

How can I develop empathy?
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HikingMan · 51-55, M
Have you ever been to a funeral for someone you didn't know that well, but you knew someone they were survived by?

Empathy is the way you didn't cry until you saw them cry and for that instant their pain became yours.
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@HikingMan People in that situation are just pretending to be sad so they can get a free meal afterwards.
HikingMan · 51-55, M
@HoeBag I don't believe that at all.

Though I have found that people who think others are going to steal off them are usually thieves.
People who think everybody is lying to them are usually liars.

Makes me wonder if a person who would make such a bold and sweeping claim as you just have might have faked a few tears in your day for a meal or two...
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@HikingMan Just one or two, my gyod you are acting like I have a habit of it.
HikingMan · 51-55, M
@HoeBag I am not acting like anything.
Just wondering and thinking.
Thinking is a habit of mine.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
@HikingMan This is very much me in a sense. I can read about a tsunami killing a hundred people and think it's a tragic shame. But let me see one person I don't even know tearfully recount how they watched their friend get lost in the water and the tears will come. I feel everything more deeply if I'm around other people feeling the same thing.
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@ViciDraco Strangely enough - one d3ath is a tragedy but several d3aths is a statistic.

No, I did not make that up.