Be careful of how you apologizing when wrong, particuarly when girls who are not slim are involved.

I work with or rather alongside a woman who is very unhappy because she cannot stop eating and thus she is rotund.

All day long she is eating and i hear her stuffing her face and mucnching and chomping. One day last week she was depressed as usual and she said to me 'im scared that people are silently judging me'

I said "people arent silently judging you. Everyone in the office gossips about you"

She then got a bit more upset so i said "dont be sad. Youre one of the ones that probably suits being fat"

Now people are saying i should sayy sorry