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Am I the asshole for coming off as too flirty when I genuinely wanted to help someone?

I was feeling lonely, and kind of useless, so I went to reddit and reached out to this one girl. She was six months pregnant from rape, and had no one to support her. She said she was feeling suicidal, so I talked to her over snapchat, and got to know her. She was a pretty girl, and I was honest about that, and did everything I could to respect her boundaries. I told her if I ever made her uncomfortable to just tell me nicely. Then later the same week she went into labor early, and while I was trying to talk her through it she started cussing me out, and told me I was the bad guy. I tried to be nice about it, and tried to explain my own baggage, and tried to help as best as I could. But I can't help but feel that I am the bad guy. If I did something wrong, please tell me, I want to learn from this.
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YoMomma ·
Were you trying to help her or were you trying to get with her? She just had a rapist’s baby she’s probably not in the mood fyi all that anger is directed at you

Just ask yourself what your real intentions are are you just trying to help or are you trying to take advantage of a girl who needs help?
You should be asking her.

 
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