Is it bad being too nice?

People keep telling me I'm too nice. I have my boundaries, sometimes people may walk all over me or not take me seriously but I still hold to my boundary, but is being too nice bad when it comes to relationships with people?

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

Based off what you wrote, the issue is likely that if you’re letting people walk all over you then you’re lacking boundaries.
When nice = self destructive, yes that’s a bad thing.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@WhateverWorks what can I do differently?

WhateverWorks · 36-40

@Fifidog probably more work on learning more about what healthy boundaries look like and strategies to maintain those boundaries with people consistently.