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Gust want to ask you laddie here im gust wondering am i a really nice guy because i try to be really nice and caring and loving person can any one of you tell me what im doing wrong or if im doings anything wrong at all please let me know it really been bugging me here lately would love to hear from you ladies thank you for any input you can give me
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Don't mean to be mean, but you come off slightly autistic. Also the spelling of 'just' as 'gust' is triggering tf out of me.
NOS4R2 · 41-45
@faithfulhusband You're triggered by an incorrect spelling and your saying he comes across as slightly autistic?
That's funny😂
@NOS4R2 somebody has to mention it. are you one of those ppl that don't say anything when someone has food stuck in their teeth? you're part of the problem.
NOS4R2 · 41-45
@faithfulhusband Making up stuff to accuse me of doesn't change the evidence of what you wrote.
Tell me, what makes him seem autistic?
Out of the whole three posts he has made what evidence is there to assume a diagnosis of autism?
Because even to focus enough on one first time irregularity in spelling enough to point it out, is very indicative of OCD, autism, TBI and such.
I just thought it was funny: an indicative obsessive pre-empting autism in someone.
I'm keen to see why you think he's autistic
@NOS4R2 i do have OCD probably but im not triggered it's just internet speak. if someone wrote LOL do u think they're actually laughing out loud? he comes off autistic because he's a grown man struggling to socialize
NOS4R2 · 41-45
@faithfulhusband He's also suffering loss.
Loss can be a terrible trauma and really mess up a person's ego, courage, belief in life and themselves. Such losses can totally trash someone's whole desire for life and all they used to enjoy - it's like the light goes out.
It can affect their ability to interact with people.

As to language - it changes over time .
Just as lol once meant 'laugh out loud', now it more communicates 'slight amusement'.
Meanings change .

Language is primarily for communication.
If we get the gist of something, then communication achieved.
If we get to hung up on details we have the ability to think past or think around, we can get sidetracked or lose the focus of the topic .

I see your point he's struggling.
And his written form isn't perfect .
You could be right
But maybe let's focus on what he needs most rather than details that might make him worry or suffer more ?
When someone is struggling we offer support right ?
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