What type of personality/ feature, etc makes a man actually want to stay with a woman and commit?
31-35, F
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Innocent women. I want a wife, not someone that has been hopping from one dick to the next. Preferably a virgin, but not necessarily. I don’t want to be a hypocrite since I’ve already lost my virginity, although a bit later in life because I waited so long to lose it to my first girlfriend. I thought she was the one, and I really waited.
I’d easily commit to a lady who still has her purity. Again, it’s unrealistic at my age and it’d be hypocritical, but to answer your question I’d almost 100% commit to someone if I were her first. I would treat her like a princess and do everything for her. I’ll probably get hate comments for this, but that’s my best answer for this question.
The next big thing is just stability. She doesn’t need to be a virgin, but at least she has to able to stand on her own feet. I don’t want to be a “beta male supporter”, as described by some guys. A woman that spent her youth fucking around with countless men, and looking for some working guy to settle down with later on in life and expect to be completely taken care of. That’s foolish all around.
I’d easily commit to a lady who still has her purity. Again, it’s unrealistic at my age and it’d be hypocritical, but to answer your question I’d almost 100% commit to someone if I were her first. I would treat her like a princess and do everything for her. I’ll probably get hate comments for this, but that’s my best answer for this question.
The next big thing is just stability. She doesn’t need to be a virgin, but at least she has to able to stand on her own feet. I don’t want to be a “beta male supporter”, as described by some guys. A woman that spent her youth fucking around with countless men, and looking for some working guy to settle down with later on in life and expect to be completely taken care of. That’s foolish all around.
LoneGirl101 · 31-35, F
bijouxbroussard · F
@LoneGirl101 Not all men need that, though. It’s a sign of insecurity and distrust to need a virgin—unless he’s also one.
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@OldMan70 I’m not holding my breath. I don’t believe in romance like in the movies anymore lol
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@bijouxbroussard a man can give his whole world to the right woman, and I mean absolutely everything.
I ain’t giving shit to some used up broad though, lol. Like I said, she doesn’t need to be a virgin to be in a relationship with her, but If she’s no longer a virgin it’s 50-50 in the relationship at best. The priority on her is lower on the list. Divorce might be more likely. Marriage might be better off avoided altogether.
I don’t like comparing women to cars, but a used car isn’t as good as a brand new car.
I ain’t giving shit to some used up broad though, lol. Like I said, she doesn’t need to be a virgin to be in a relationship with her, but If she’s no longer a virgin it’s 50-50 in the relationship at best. The priority on her is lower on the list. Divorce might be more likely. Marriage might be better off avoided altogether.
I don’t like comparing women to cars, but a used car isn’t as good as a brand new car.
Mamapolo2016 · F
@bijouxbroussard Line (loosely quoted) from Out of Africa: "l must marry a virgin. I can't bear competition."
bijouxbroussard · F
@SW-User I don’t know what to say. Is a man who isn’t a virgin like a used car ? If he’s not, in your opinion, what’s the difference ? Or don’t you consider women human beings, rather than possessions (like someone’s car) ?
If you don’t see women as people, then I guess you just don’t. 🥺
If you don’t see women as people, then I guess you just don’t. 🥺
bijouxbroussard · F
@Mamapolo2016 That’s the bottom line. He worries he won’t measure up. And a man who sees a wife as a possession or trophy rather than his life partner is not someone a serious woman should trust. What happens after she’s had his children, or she simply grows old ? Is she "used up" ? Is it time for him to get a "brand new model" ? Thank goodness not all men are that shallow.
Mamapolo2016 · F
@bijouxbroussard Well, he's honest, at least in this respect. The heart wants what it wants.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Mamapolo2016 You’re right. And a smart woman will heed the warning.
Kasiyat · 36-40, F
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@bijouxbroussard I completely agree with you. A partner is going to change, get old, get sick, etc. So will the other partner. He'll get fat, lose hair, etc.