Style is a reflection of your attitude and personality

@Reject I’ve met a lot of interesting people in interesting clothes, but theres a lot of egotism there that for me makes them cumbersome to be around.

@WhateverWorks Egotism, or just caring too much about appearances. So much so you forget about character. Wherever your attention goes obviously means other things won’t have it.

@Reject I don’t mind if they care about their appearances if those appearances align with what brings them joy/meaning. 🤔 Of course, it’s none of my business whether their appearance aligns with their core values anyway, but I noticed people who have to put a lot of effort into appearances that contradict their values are pretty unhappy. I mostly don’t hit it off well with people who have superiority complexes and groupies 😅 Granted, I’ve met plenty of people who dressed simply, and still had superiority complexes along with groupies 😆 it’s a roll of the dice lol

@WhateverWorks Typically though, people try to be things with their appearance. That’s why so many can obsesses over it. You’re expressing something that you admire, but they spent so much time emulating instead of becoming. All this to the extent when I actually talk to them, I find out they’re nothing like what their looks suggest. So when I see someone who does little to nothing with their looks. They’re even somewhat unkempt. They’re rarely trying to be something. They’ve settled into whatever they are.