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Love the beach!

I have always loved going to the beach my whole life! I want to always lay in the sun and always want to wear cute bikinis but sometimes I get told they're too revealing lol! Why can't a girl just wear something fun without people thinking its wrong or too much??
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lauranne · 22-25, F
Me too. We have beautiful beaches here, but sometimes mischievous guys!

Just wear whatever you're comfortable wearing
6XXX969 · 31-35, M
@jennyspar wear what makes you feel good and you’ll always look amazing in it!
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wetncthru · F
@lauranne Or not wear?!
mclovin02 · 46-50, M
I've always been of the belief that you should wear what you want and makes you comfortable. In this case, if a bikini is what you want to wear then I saw wear it.
coolnudist · 70-79, M
You're a beautiful young lady you should wear what you feel comfortable wearing and makes you happy! Life is too short to go around with a frown on your face, and worrying about what everyone else thinks!

The other person that says that may not be as beautiful as you are and they're jealous of how beautiful you are and they say that to make you feel bad or guilty of your appearance on a beach or a pool!
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Age might have something to do with your attire preference.

You have to take in the culture as a factor, in this very large world.

This American cultured site most certainly does. Not even your appropriate profile picture will be shown to most. 😔

Go to Australia now, and you specifically, can't even be on this site. 🙄

Go to China and most everyone can't be on this site, regardless of age. 😡

Everything depends on the culture.

What is really funny is that even ChatGPT is culturally biased. 🤣

Yet I don't expect many to even know this last one. 🫤
wetncthru · F
Your concerns are valid ... especially if you really "like"(!) to be seen, watched, looked at?!
Theyitis · 36-40, M
I agree, you should get to wear whatever you want!
Toplessteen13 · 13-15, M
I love swimming in the ocean
teenrob · M
That’s really a pity! You should be allowed to wear whatever you like!!!!
Beach is always relaxing 😎
nothing beats the waes of the ocean the warm sand to lie on a towel forget your trouble get a lil tan have fun
OldManoftheMtn · 61-69, M
Just do you. What other people think of you should be no concern of yours.
Khenpal1 · M
wear nothing
Teslin · M
Too much or too little 😊
You be you !! Wear what you are comfortable wearing.
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
One should wear what one wishes.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
people just like to judge.
Panamared · 70-79, M
Wear what you want or wear nothing
wetncthru · F
A lot also depends on the body language of the wearer!
GoFish ·
Well if you go to a nude beach they wont care.. elsewhere they might complain if you're dressed too skimpily
jennyspar · 18-21, F
@GoFish lol its not like im nude!! just like maybe a thong bikini still covered!!
@jennyspar bet you look good in anything
GinPanda · 26-30, F
Find one that makes you feel good in it and enjoy it. You cannot control others thoughts just your own. It is about your level of comfort.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Look we can't ignore the fact that everyone else is alive and it should be like it's just us

That can only work for one person and the entire rest of the world can't have it fully their way if one does, in the real world we all affect each other whether it's good or bad, and the things you wear in public and show in public have a lot to do with how people see you, and different people will see you diffferently

The average guy that's neither trying to be a saint nor trying to do evil just living, that average guy will see you show the sexual and sensual aspects of your body and nature and go from not having a particular inclination towards you yet to instantly wanting to have sex with you

Men that have bad intentions will see you as something to play with and will come across confident because they don't actually care about you -- just your body, and whatever you can offer them or that they can take from you or get from you. Evil men will be seeking to steal and destroy regardless, so involvement with them is inherently foolish, but showing your body around signals to them that you're the easy mark to hit

Guys with good intentions may avoid you or may try to guide you the right way, or may not have strong enough character to resist your beauty and get wrapped around your finger anyway, but if they do they'll be getting hurt, to me showing the body around like that and feeling like it should be fine shows a lack of personal accountability for behavior

If I go around with my ass hanging out people will have a fit because nobody wants to see that, not that I want to, but if you do it, it arouses lust, the opposite effect but still something you're knowingly doing in the same manner as if I walked around in a thong knowing it would offend and displease people I also would be accountable for doing that despite knowing better.
HordeCory · 31-35, M
Who tells you they're too revealing? My gf is a curvy girl and she wears little string bikinis without anyone objecting.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
There is nothing wrong with a cute bikini people have no right to comment if you choose to wear one.

 
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