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Love the beach!

I have always loved going to the beach my whole life! I want to always lay in the sun and always want to wear cute bikinis but sometimes I get told they're too revealing lol! Why can't a girl just wear something fun without people thinking its wrong or too much??
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
Look we can't ignore the fact that everyone else is alive and it should be like it's just us

That can only work for one person and the entire rest of the world can't have it fully their way if one does, in the real world we all affect each other whether it's good or bad, and the things you wear in public and show in public have a lot to do with how people see you, and different people will see you diffferently

The average guy that's neither trying to be a saint nor trying to do evil just living, that average guy will see you show the sexual and sensual aspects of your body and nature and go from not having a particular inclination towards you yet to instantly wanting to have sex with you

Men that have bad intentions will see you as something to play with and will come across confident because they don't actually care about you -- just your body, and whatever you can offer them or that they can take from you or get from you. Evil men will be seeking to steal and destroy regardless, so involvement with them is inherently foolish, but showing your body around signals to them that you're the easy mark to hit

Guys with good intentions may avoid you or may try to guide you the right way, or may not have strong enough character to resist your beauty and get wrapped around your finger anyway, but if they do they'll be getting hurt, to me showing the body around like that and feeling like it should be fine shows a lack of personal accountability for behavior

If I go around with my ass hanging out people will have a fit because nobody wants to see that, not that I want to, but if you do it, it arouses lust, the opposite effect but still something you're knowingly doing in the same manner as if I walked around in a thong knowing it would offend and displease people I also would be accountable for doing that despite knowing better.