I Was Spanked As a Teen Boy

A lot of people do not understand that sexual release is different for everyone. We all have our different ways and thoughts that help bring us to our ultimate climax. The build up to it is infinitely more exciting than actual release. Yes the climax is incredible but then there is the letdown of it being over.

As I got older, there was always a kind of excitement and I would often have an erection before the spanking. It would tend to go away during the punishment because I didn't like the sting. But afterward I was always told to stay in my room for an hour or so, and I would re-live the punishment, still feeling the sting, and would often become very aroused. I dealt with that in, ahem, the usual way ;-)

As a teen boy I regretted not to have a father to discipline me more properly. I grew up as a single parent child, so my mother disciplined me. She did it always in angry and tired quickly. After she spanked me, she calmed down quickly and forgot me for my guilt. I got spankings from her until I was 17/18 years old, usually laying face down on the bed for getting the leather belt. ON those times, lads still got CPs at home, some of my mates got it even in their early 20s.

Reggie, I believe in it, used in moderation. Society has changed and, here in England at any rate, the punishments I received would probably be regarded as unacceptable (particularly the use of the slipper, and the fact of having my bottom bared); but it seems to me (and a statistical majority of other parents) that something has been lost by the stigmatizing of corporal punishment.

That is very true Alisha - and in those days, of course, I was just discovering who I was from that point of view. In my case, I quickly began to focus in my fantasies not on receiving spankings, but on giving them. That has been largely (but not entirely) the case ever since.

I can empathise with that conversation. It is difficult when one's own spouse or partner does not share one's predilections; and being single, I know it is harder still to find someone to share them.

MrHardcastle - I wonder if your mother noticed or realised your arousal?

To me, there is nothing wrong with what mum did at all.
Society, alas, has changed. What is your view of parental CP nowadays?

I wa only spanked OTK up until the age of about 7. After that I had to bend over a chair for the slipper. Nearly all my spankings were on my bare bottom.

AWSOME.. @MrHardcastle, you are a better man because of your loving Mom.
I too was spanked, naked and OTK bare handed by my Mom until I was 17.
My two sisters were always witness to my punishment (as was I to there's).
It made a lasting impression and (for me) confused/combined sexual stimulus with pain. As an older man, I appreciate what she was teaching me on many levels. When I would ejaculate between her thighs, she would pause.. then continue for more smacks.. Was that more punishment or a reward. I think she was training me for later in life...
What was your experience? Any others have those conflicting feelings when spanked as a teen?

I enjoyed my role. Keeping him hairless by shaving or waxing. Having him show himself to my GF's. Spanking him in front of them. Many other things I will not discuss on an open forum.

Yes - again, when I get the opportunity. My partner is not that way inclined, so it is more of a fantasy than a reality.

Yes, not that I get the opportunity very often!

Have you spoken to your partner about you fantasies?

Way of the world, Alisha. Could be a lot worse :-)

I'm speaking with another person who got erections and would even climax. Did this ever happen to you as well?

:-(

I am in complete agreement with you. Happy to discuss if you wish. Were you/are you a spanking dad?

I have...she understands them. Just doesnt share them.

So now you become excited giving spankings?

Both my parents used to spank my bare bottom with a slipper, and it was usually bending over the bed.

Have you tried incorporating it in sexual play?