how to stop the impulse to flirt with women on the phone
i was sexually awakened at a very young age which has caused me to be oversexed, i'm always watching porn, and it's hard to control and not doing it...like sexual impulses...i realize it's not good for me, but i feel 'spellbound' by sex.......i had a lot of sex encounters with girls in my teens....but missed out on finding a steady girlfriend because i had severe mental disorders to deal with, social issues too, and i went down a dark path and missed out on relationships. I'm late 40s now.
fast forward to the present and when i speak with women on the phone, whether it be call centres, helplines....i tend to quickly resort to flirting with her, even though i hardly know the woman....it's like just even by speaking to a woman and hearing her voice, makes me aroused?
and even when i don't particularly like the attitude of the woman or not like her personality and need to speak seriously, assertively to get a matter resolved....i end up resorting to flirting again, because i feel aroused speaking with the woman...just because it's a woman?...and on the occasions a women flirts back, which they do at times...i get really turned on and aroused....
how can i overrule these impulses, desires and flirtation habits? i really want to get the better of it because it's controlling my life, and as i said, i'm spellbound by sex.
fast forward to the present and when i speak with women on the phone, whether it be call centres, helplines....i tend to quickly resort to flirting with her, even though i hardly know the woman....it's like just even by speaking to a woman and hearing her voice, makes me aroused?
and even when i don't particularly like the attitude of the woman or not like her personality and need to speak seriously, assertively to get a matter resolved....i end up resorting to flirting again, because i feel aroused speaking with the woman...just because it's a woman?...and on the occasions a women flirts back, which they do at times...i get really turned on and aroused....
how can i overrule these impulses, desires and flirtation habits? i really want to get the better of it because it's controlling my life, and as i said, i'm spellbound by sex.
46-50, M
