How did you learn about sex and do you understand it ?

I still don't understand it at age 56. Freaky hey.

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WonderGirl

I knew there was a thing called sex, and it was an adult thing. My parents rented movies on the weekend, and there was always an adult video among them. My room was separated from theirs by a curtain so I could hear everything happening. A few times, I peeked to see what was going on, and I saw them having sex. One morning, before they woke up, I turned on the TV, and it was set to watch the VCR. There was a porn tape in the machine. I was mesmerized and became aroused watching and began masturbating. After seeing a few videos, I pretty much knew what sex was about, and it all made sense to me.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@WonderGirl Ok I didn't really get that far until my early to mid 20's as I didn't have any interest in girls before then, and I've never been interested in boys (for clarification).

WonderGirl

@zonavar68 I thought all little boys played with themselves. 🤗

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@WonderGirl Sex is still very much a mystery to me now, oddly. I guess partly because I've hardly dated (plus two relationships that went to shit) and find it very overwhelming to try.

exexec · 61-69, C

My parents gave me a book when I was about 12, but I didn't learn much about sex from reading it. My girlfriend/wife taught me everything I know about sex.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@exexec Very lucky to have a romantic partner 'teach' you. Something I could only dream of, but at 56 I'm expected to know everything about the subject. I don't.

exexec · 61-69, C

@zonavar68 Yes, I do feel lucky. Lynn and I learned together until she got to college and got another level of sex education.

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