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I Don't Enjoy Sex

The beginning feels good. I love getting fingered and such. The afterwards is good too. I feel so drowsy yet happy afterwards. But when I’m having sex with him, I don’t really feel anything. I move my hips so he cums faster. I guess I just want to get it over with. :(
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]Honestly, most women have this problem. I experienced the samething until I finally got fed up n told him. It turns out I wasn’t receiving enough foreplay to be really aroused. Everything gets more sensitive when you’re truly aroused and it makes a world of difference. [/c]
Death · 22-25, F
How much foreplay did you receive?
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@Death [c=#4C0073]i dunno I wasn’t timeing it, but the point is that you’ve got to be really aroused. If you’re not super wet like leaking, then you’re not really ready.[/c]
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
Like @VioletRayne kinda said! If your body isn’t begging to be filled by him, you aren’t ready. Your body will tell you when you’ve had enough foreplay. Trust your body.
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I think you have to find the kink that works for you. Everyone is wired differently....see what turns you on. Kisses behind your ears, feet, thumb sucking, stockings, etc...start experimenting until you hit your spot!(pun intended)
Sounds like he has a small one down below?
Death · 22-25, F
No😂@Not1found
@Death lucky you !
Rhodesianman · 56-60, M
There is nothing wrong with you girl its him some blokes just don't have a clue I take it he is the same age as you and not mature enough yet on how to make love properly .
My daughter as a teen had the same problem and started dating older guys with more experience in every way .
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
He isn’t spending enough time on you first. But you need to know what makes it good for you before it will ever be good for you, then you need to communicate with him what you need. It’s always a nice feeling after he gets there, but it’s an amazing feeling when you get there too.
Viper · M
I'm sorry to hear that... sounds like you enjoy the foreplay which I believe is true for a lot of women.

Hopefully some can relate and know exactly where you are coming from :)
SW-User
He should be fingering your clit as well to give you stimulation because most women can't orgasm from penetration alone. If he won't then play with yourself while he's pounding away.
That doesn't good...

Cant you teach him how to fit your spot 😅

You need your satisfaction too you know...
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
Maybe you need a different partner?
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
I don’t think that’s being superficial. If you love him and want to stay with him. Maybe you just need to communicate what you like. Help him be better for you. @Death
Death · 22-25, F
Okay :(
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
You’re young. You’ll figure out what you like and don’t like. It will get better for you. @Death
SW-User
If that’s all the sex consists of then I can kinda understand why....
😕
Pfuzylogic · M
Maybe some oral on his part before and after fingering you.
NoSugar · 22-25, F
stay with fingerign and oral sex then maybe ?
Larold99 · 41-45, M
Just wait until you get married 😂😂
You sound like you need to do more exploring. Add some toys. Cause if it is just the same old in and out that is boring. Also a penis can not hit the clit or g-spot as go as fingers which might be why those are better for you.
Yogi83 · 31-35, M
Maybe you need your partner to be willing to go down on you. Some guys don’t like it though and I say there tripping pussy tastes good
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PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Wow...you need to concentrate on how you feel down there and with him inside you
Larold99 · 41-45, M
It's the way it feels it's like that for any man you move a certain way and BAM you're done
dondon · M
Get on top and find a position that you enjoy. Or get on his face :)
Ooooooooh dats sexy
Death · 22-25, F
Not really @Mistakesmakeus
@Death you move Dem hips faster that's ultra sexy
Funopenrelationship · 36-40, M
That is unfortunate. But I disagree with the comments that it is his fault. Communication is key. Aswell as letting go and letting it happen. Try to relax. Enjoy each moment with eachother. No pressure for an outcome. Let it build itself and then ride it.
And of course let him know what feels good! Often the best way to get what you want:)
Larold99 · 41-45, M
Its not his fault the more it feels better the chances are youre going to cum happens all the time
Khenpal1 · M
you need to find passion in it.
Winterwine · 61-69, M
You like the fore n afterplay best...?
Skilllickous · 51-55, M
He's not doing right for u to enjoy
Funopenrelationship · 36-40, M
That is unfortunate!
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Montanaman · M
@Skilllickous not quite the point she's making.🤔

 
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