I Don't Enjoy Sex

The beginning feels good. I love getting fingered and such. The afterwards is good too. I feel so drowsy yet happy afterwards. But when I’m having sex with him, I don’t really feel anything. I move my hips so he cums faster. I guess I just want to get it over with. :(

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Funopenrelationship · 36-40, M

That is unfortunate. But I disagree with the comments that it is his fault. Communication is key. Aswell as letting go and letting it happen. Try to relax. Enjoy each moment with eachother. No pressure for an outcome. Let it build itself and then ride it.
And of course let him know what feels good! Often the best way to get what you want:)