Is it really genuinely possible for a guy to have a woman so besotted that she gets wet at the thought (or sight) of him?

And wants nothing more than to jump him the moment he appears in her physical presence?

I've never had that experience so just wondering if it really ever happens or is just something portrayed only in porn?

Do women think the same about men in their romantic lives ie. wanting the man to get hard thinking of or seeing her, etc. automatically?

Part of the reason I ask is I remember my second ex claiming that she used to masturbate thinking about me when I wasn't at home (either at work or whatever) but when I challenged her to 'prove it', should would never show me. She never asked me if I masturbated thinking about her however. I did - sometimes - when the relationship was still positive but that's not really the point.