im bored, need some advice

If you live near a major city, find a Lesbian Club to check out. They can be extremely entertaining ...I'm not kidding.

If you are not at the age to gain entrance to clubs that serve alcohol, whether you drink or not, you can find some that don't serve alcohol too or check with the local LGBTQ Center to get referrals.

Well, you did say "Beyond the Vanilla Stuff" ...lol

Depending on the state you're in, you can go to a shooting range. They have this target practice game where you can play Battleship, except you gotta try to hit the boats with bullets

You can also try going to a cat cafe. Buy some coffee or cocoa and go hang out in a room full of cats.

Maybe you can see where they're having live music. I'm not sure if you're old enough for bars, but there might also be smaller venues you can check out

Fetlife is always fun. So many great groups to join. Women get swarmed in there though, but it is still fun.

Volunteer. Plenty of opportunities in myriad fields, and many not vanilla or they wouldn't need volunteers.

Homeless need love too

Get a massage

I do the fetish stuff to go beyond the vanilla

And what is “vanilla stuff”? 🤔

Depends on your definition of vanilla & how crazy you want to be

RP?