Partner masturbating in private and not wanting intimacy?

Maybe you can masturbate with him so maybe you can get together again. Maybe this will turn him on again?

On Sat or whenever you have off go to someplay and pick up breakfest to go. Sit down and talk it out with him

Tell him what your needs are and why you enjoy being intimate with him.

Ask him about his needs including how often he needs, it and what he needs specifically. also what he enjoys about being intmate with you.

If he won't have a convesation with you got a real problem but you may end up hash it out over hashbrowns and find out that is something silly like he didn't want to wake you up in the middle of the night for sex or he felt he was being too pushy.

You don't know until you sit down with him and talk about it.

best of luck to you

He has a problem. Which one, I don't know. The ex-spouse used to do that too. And cheated as well. The reply of " I wouldn't be here otherwise", that is disturbing. He said the same thing. Sit down with him. Make the time. Get to the root of this. He owes you the truth. Simply being there is not participation. And refusing intimacy is only going to worsen. I wish you good luck. Hopefully he will be honest about what is going on. If he refuses, you have choices about your next move. You deserve an authentic, loving partner. Keep us updated.

If he is avoiding intimacy and it's a new thing, then something is going on... talk to him and see if you can discover what it is.

If it is bothering you, then you aren't overreacting.

Gift him a fellatio while he is asleep. And fiddle with his manhood while lying over him.
Take shower with the bathroom door open and offer to shower him by calling him in.

Kissing is the libido for both. If you haven't been kissing lately, then something inbetween has creeped in.

Walk in whack hin off

Try to rub his manhood, play with it and kiss and lick, if he gets excited and hard and ready to intercourse then he's still interested if not then he's not into u.

Talk to him. If you are there and willing, he shouldn't need that. Sometime guys do it when bored. But it shouldn't be a regular thing.

Offer to do it for him or give him oral

Keep doing what you’re doing in bed and consider mixing things up to keep it fresh and exciting.

Yes there is an issue. I have some advice and think I can help. Pm if you want to discuss

I think joining in with him would be a great turn on, it would be for me

Be tactful but ask him what’s up?

Maybe just go down on him,whenever possible.. be spontaneous