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Would you use a Disciplinarian?

As Society begins to lean toward more traditional values, i am hearing from those that, due to 30 plus years of misplaced feminism, women are not finding confident, dominant men who are open to using a firm hand in a domestic discipline style relationship.

That, combined with many women being single, later in life, or divorced - i pose the question. If by word of mouth and trust, you were introduced to a disciplinarian who could help with regular goal planning and review sessions - from chores to procrastination, to simply feeling out of sorts, would the idea of being disciplined on a regular basis be appealing? Even married women who knew their husbands could not do this properly.

Would love to hear people's thoughts - how often would you imagine meeting, and what type of discipline and implements would make the best changes in your life?
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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
A disciplinarian fills a gap when you are wired that way and have nobody available when you have a need to be held accountable. But really, it is better to accept that from a husband. There should be real emotional investment and trust so you can give every bit of yourself freely, in a healthy marriage that's easy but it can't possibly be there with a stand in disciplinarian, at least not to that level.