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Would you use a Disciplinarian?

As Society begins to lean toward more traditional values, i am hearing from those that, due to 30 plus years of misplaced feminism, women are not finding confident, dominant men who are open to using a firm hand in a domestic discipline style relationship.

That, combined with many women being single, later in life, or divorced - i pose the question. If by word of mouth and trust, you were introduced to a disciplinarian who could help with regular goal planning and review sessions - from chores to procrastination, to simply feeling out of sorts, would the idea of being disciplined on a regular basis be appealing? Even married women who knew their husbands could not do this properly.

Would love to hear people's thoughts - how often would you imagine meeting, and what type of discipline and implements would make the best changes in your life?
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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
A disciplinarian fills a gap when you are wired that way and have nobody available when you have a need to be held accountable. But really, it is better to accept that from a husband. There should be real emotional investment and trust so you can give every bit of yourself freely, in a healthy marriage that's easy but it can't possibly be there with a stand in disciplinarian, at least not to that level.
Spanking creates a lifelong bond or it doesn't work at all. It is super intimate and personal. Maybe at a spanking party with a long waiting-line there could be a popular spanker who didn't care to get to know you and with whom you did not share any real communication. How satisfying would or could that be? Maybe others who have done it can share how it went? I have no direct knowledge but in advance of actually experiencing it, it seems grim and lonely.
Lisa82 · 41-45, F
I have been lucky that hubby is my disciplinarian. But I have thought about it..... in fact I have written a fiction piece about it..... you will have to copy and paste this into a browser if you want to read it. https://lisa-fiction.blogspot.com/2026/03/on-my-own-now.html
Hairlover · 41-45, F
I am very submissive and I will obey you sir
Lara04006 · 31-35, F
Curious what you mean by "misplaced feminism."
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Why don't have the courage to admit finding it difficult to meet meek, submissive women who want to be kept in what you deem their place, by physical violence?

And that you would enjoy beating even other men's wives?

This year is 2026, not 1826!
sfish007 · 61-69, M
@ArishMell good to know you dont understand - but that is fine... enjoy the day.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@sfish007 I do understand. Your message could not be clearer.

If you want a fully-consensual, adult, erotic spanking relationship, fine - find a web-site offering such contacts - but don't try to hide behind euphemisms.
sfish007 · 61-69, M
@ArishMell This is a Discipline NSFW group... i mentioned nothing about beating, or erotic spanking.. again, different things for different folks, there are many on here who look for and discuss domestic discipline and more... so, thanks for the opinion.
BohoBabe · M
due to 30 plus years of misplaced feminism

If that's how you think, then you're not fit to lead a DD relationship.
You guys are so corny.

 
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