😊 it happens. Though it is concerned disrespect to have a smart rhetoric, it is also important to understand it is steaming from an emotional release. Only one out of anger instead of remorse for the action.
The job you have to do at that point is get to the point of asking yourself why you are angry? Are you angry at who is spanking you, do you feel like he is not taking into account something you feel is important, or more so angry at yourself for breaking the rules you and your HoH agreed to uphold. Often times when anger pops up it has to be addressed of where it is steaming from to get to the point of being able to accept you messed up or something else needs to be addressed. If you figure out where it is coming from and communicate that it often leads to seeing more acceptable behavior and better relationship.
