I Am Open to An Cfnm Experience
This CFNM thing ... it has always inspired me. I have dreams of a world where cfnm is normal and "straight", so to speak. Actually it's no longer called CFNM since it has become the standard. The boys are naked and the girls are clothed, be it at the beach or the public swimming pool. Boys are not at all embarrassed since it has become the norm for them to be on full frontal display all the time.
Whether they play Frisbee with the girls or they just lie on the lawn for sunbathing - they are naked. There is even a small circular pool with flowing water running down a pole in the middle, and around stand the schoolboys and take a pee and aim at the pole. There are girls nearby who may or may not take a look while the boys are peeing. If one of the boys can't stop peeing and it goes on and on, the girls point with their fingers at him and tell him not to drink that much. The boy is not at all ashamed; and, while there's still some pee leaking out, he laughs and admits he's had a gallon of cola today. (Watching them pee is very important, because it's such a natural bodily function, always done in private in the real world, and it's absolutely non-sexual. Watching two boys/men peeing together is even better, because it helps them lose their shyness in front of each other.)
Of course the older boys and guys are also naked and the girls can observe their sexual development. Their pubic hair, how fast it is growing etc., the increase in size of their penises and testicles. They speak about this open and freely, and to the guys it is perfectly normal to answer any questions the girls may have. Such as lifting up their penises to display and their pubic hair on their testicles.
Of course, the locker rooms, showers and toilets for the girls are in a separate room behind the boys facilities, separated by a double door where the 2nd door does not open before the first one has been closed. So the boys do not have the slightest chance of peeping through the doorway.
The boys facilities are labeled "public rooms". The boys showers are not in separate cubicles. They are arranged in a circle in the middle of the public rooms. The girl move along to the left and right of the showers to their own separate room. The guys are busy washing their bottoms, and their crotch. The girls may even talk to them for a while before they enter their private rooms.
Mother/son nudity.— Of course nudity is perfectly normal as far as the boys' mothers are concerned. Nothing more natural than a boy in the shower while a fully dressed mom is combing her hair in the bathroom. They have a pleasant morning talk when he has left the shower and is drying his body. Accustomed to being nude, they speak open and freely about everything that's in his mind. Their nudity makes it all so easy.
In this scenery there will be a new generation of women to whom male frontal nudity is a most natural thing. They will talk to each other about their men's penises like they would talk about a new pair of sandals they bought. One lady might tell her female friend that her husband was circumcised some time ago. She will ask her husband to strip and display. He will do without hesitation. The ladies will then, for example, study how tight the circumcision is. This situation will not be "kinky". It will be as candid as examining a pair of sandals.
Overcoming shyness.— Many men are not embarrassed to be naked in front of a woman in the real world, but they become shy when another man is present (competition?). In a CFNM world it would be very important for them to get rid of this silly shyness. They would have to learn that it's not at all embarrassing to be naked in the presence of another nude man, no matter whether they are young or old, slim or fat, or whether their penises are long, short, thick, thin, flaccid or erect. They have to learn, and we (as fully clothed females) have to teach them, and speak open and freely about every aspect of their naked bodies. Politely and friendly of course, but we should not hesitate to use expressions such as "your penis", "your scrotum", "your bottom cheeks" and so on. Speaking openly, clearly and frankly would be very helpful for them to overcome their silly shyness.
Zero tolerance.— We do not tolerate any vulgarity or obscene words. A naked man or boy who is caught speaking vulgarities will immediately have to hold his ears and do fifty fast squats in front of the clothed woman who has caught him. After the squats he has to apologize for his deplorabe language or rude behavior, standing straight in front of her and holding his ears. Every clothed woman is entitled to have a man doing squats whenever she feels it's appropriate (like when he doesn't smile in her presence, or when he's in a bad mood generally). In very serious cases he may be told to stay in the so-called "murga" position (bending over and putting arms under the legs while holding his ears) by the clothed woman until she feels he has learned his lesson. Unfortunately this is sometimes necessary to enforce proper behavior.
A scene in the city: when I met Cathy and her husband.—
—Oh hello Cathy dear!
" Hello Helen how are you doing!
— Thanks Cathy I'm fine! What about your husband? He looks like a drooling mess!
" Oh yes he is a drooling mess, aren't you David? ["Yes Cathy dear, I am!"]
— Since when has he been locked Cathy?
" Oh just for two weeks so far Helen!
— Surely, without release?
" Of course Helen!
— I assume he misbehaved a lot in public?
" Helen you know they all become erect from time to time. But we can't tolerate their having erections all the time, can't we Helen?
— No of course not Cathy. Do you keep him caged at home as well?
" Sure, as I said, he's a permanent.
— Oh he's a permanent! Must be difficult for him in the morning, I assume, Cathy?
" Oh it's almost unbearable isn't it David? ["Yes Cathy it is!"]
— Does he have spontaneous emissions at night?
" No, he doesn't, the cage is too small, and you see those two spikes over here... and here, do you, Helen, dear?
— Oh yes I see Cathy. Well they are not really sharp.
" No they aren't, we don't want to be cruel, Helen.
— No of course not Cathy. I think he can live with that.
" Oh he has to, he has to. Although, the day before yesterday, he became desperate and tried to remove the cage in the bathroom.
— No Cathy come on tell me you are joking.
" No I'm not Helen, he really tried to, with a pair of jeweller pliers, and a screwdriver hahaha.
— Hahaha incredible did he hurt himself Cathy?
" No he was quite noisy and I could hear him in the bathroom.
— What did he say when you caught him?
" Guess what? He started crying!
— Oh Cathy look at this! Something's coming out!
" Yes Helen it's oozing out all the time!
— Haha yes I see Cathy oh dear what a mess. Do you think he will have to be released soon? Has he learned his lesson?
" Oh no of course not Helen! He's a permanent now!
— I see! Where are you going, by the way?
" Oh we are just going to visit my ex you know, Helen, dear. He's in town for a week. I'm sooo looking forward to seeing him tonight, right David? ["Yes Cathy you are."]
— So have a nice day Cathy!
" Thank you Helen, so nice meeting you, see you later. Come on David, let's go!
———————-
Natural appearance.— Shaving male body hair should be discouraged. Body hair is a natural part of the male body and should not be removed. Men should always look the way mother (!) nature intended. Yes some men are very hairy, but there will always be women who enjoy the sight. I may be one of those by the way.
[edited 11/04/18] Talking about men.— We’d most certainly talk about men open and freely whenever we want to. Even in your presence, while you are standing in front of us naked and exposed, we’d talk about the way you perform as a lover. We’d spare no details, your strong points and your weaknesses (there may be a few). We sit and watch and listen as one of us describes how you perform, touching you if necessary to clarify a point, and answering any questions about you that may come up.
Conclusion.— It would be a wonderful and peaceful world. You guys are so nice to look at. You are fun and exciting to play with you. Please let me say it again: you are nice to look at when you are naked.
Whether they play Frisbee with the girls or they just lie on the lawn for sunbathing - they are naked. There is even a small circular pool with flowing water running down a pole in the middle, and around stand the schoolboys and take a pee and aim at the pole. There are girls nearby who may or may not take a look while the boys are peeing. If one of the boys can't stop peeing and it goes on and on, the girls point with their fingers at him and tell him not to drink that much. The boy is not at all ashamed; and, while there's still some pee leaking out, he laughs and admits he's had a gallon of cola today. (Watching them pee is very important, because it's such a natural bodily function, always done in private in the real world, and it's absolutely non-sexual. Watching two boys/men peeing together is even better, because it helps them lose their shyness in front of each other.)
Of course the older boys and guys are also naked and the girls can observe their sexual development. Their pubic hair, how fast it is growing etc., the increase in size of their penises and testicles. They speak about this open and freely, and to the guys it is perfectly normal to answer any questions the girls may have. Such as lifting up their penises to display and their pubic hair on their testicles.
Of course, the locker rooms, showers and toilets for the girls are in a separate room behind the boys facilities, separated by a double door where the 2nd door does not open before the first one has been closed. So the boys do not have the slightest chance of peeping through the doorway.
The boys facilities are labeled "public rooms". The boys showers are not in separate cubicles. They are arranged in a circle in the middle of the public rooms. The girl move along to the left and right of the showers to their own separate room. The guys are busy washing their bottoms, and their crotch. The girls may even talk to them for a while before they enter their private rooms.
Mother/son nudity.— Of course nudity is perfectly normal as far as the boys' mothers are concerned. Nothing more natural than a boy in the shower while a fully dressed mom is combing her hair in the bathroom. They have a pleasant morning talk when he has left the shower and is drying his body. Accustomed to being nude, they speak open and freely about everything that's in his mind. Their nudity makes it all so easy.
In this scenery there will be a new generation of women to whom male frontal nudity is a most natural thing. They will talk to each other about their men's penises like they would talk about a new pair of sandals they bought. One lady might tell her female friend that her husband was circumcised some time ago. She will ask her husband to strip and display. He will do without hesitation. The ladies will then, for example, study how tight the circumcision is. This situation will not be "kinky". It will be as candid as examining a pair of sandals.
Overcoming shyness.— Many men are not embarrassed to be naked in front of a woman in the real world, but they become shy when another man is present (competition?). In a CFNM world it would be very important for them to get rid of this silly shyness. They would have to learn that it's not at all embarrassing to be naked in the presence of another nude man, no matter whether they are young or old, slim or fat, or whether their penises are long, short, thick, thin, flaccid or erect. They have to learn, and we (as fully clothed females) have to teach them, and speak open and freely about every aspect of their naked bodies. Politely and friendly of course, but we should not hesitate to use expressions such as "your penis", "your scrotum", "your bottom cheeks" and so on. Speaking openly, clearly and frankly would be very helpful for them to overcome their silly shyness.
Zero tolerance.— We do not tolerate any vulgarity or obscene words. A naked man or boy who is caught speaking vulgarities will immediately have to hold his ears and do fifty fast squats in front of the clothed woman who has caught him. After the squats he has to apologize for his deplorabe language or rude behavior, standing straight in front of her and holding his ears. Every clothed woman is entitled to have a man doing squats whenever she feels it's appropriate (like when he doesn't smile in her presence, or when he's in a bad mood generally). In very serious cases he may be told to stay in the so-called "murga" position (bending over and putting arms under the legs while holding his ears) by the clothed woman until she feels he has learned his lesson. Unfortunately this is sometimes necessary to enforce proper behavior.
A scene in the city: when I met Cathy and her husband.—
—Oh hello Cathy dear!
" Hello Helen how are you doing!
— Thanks Cathy I'm fine! What about your husband? He looks like a drooling mess!
" Oh yes he is a drooling mess, aren't you David? ["Yes Cathy dear, I am!"]
— Since when has he been locked Cathy?
" Oh just for two weeks so far Helen!
— Surely, without release?
" Of course Helen!
— I assume he misbehaved a lot in public?
" Helen you know they all become erect from time to time. But we can't tolerate their having erections all the time, can't we Helen?
— No of course not Cathy. Do you keep him caged at home as well?
" Sure, as I said, he's a permanent.
— Oh he's a permanent! Must be difficult for him in the morning, I assume, Cathy?
" Oh it's almost unbearable isn't it David? ["Yes Cathy it is!"]
— Does he have spontaneous emissions at night?
" No, he doesn't, the cage is too small, and you see those two spikes over here... and here, do you, Helen, dear?
— Oh yes I see Cathy. Well they are not really sharp.
" No they aren't, we don't want to be cruel, Helen.
— No of course not Cathy. I think he can live with that.
" Oh he has to, he has to. Although, the day before yesterday, he became desperate and tried to remove the cage in the bathroom.
— No Cathy come on tell me you are joking.
" No I'm not Helen, he really tried to, with a pair of jeweller pliers, and a screwdriver hahaha.
— Hahaha incredible did he hurt himself Cathy?
" No he was quite noisy and I could hear him in the bathroom.
— What did he say when you caught him?
" Guess what? He started crying!
— Oh Cathy look at this! Something's coming out!
" Yes Helen it's oozing out all the time!
— Haha yes I see Cathy oh dear what a mess. Do you think he will have to be released soon? Has he learned his lesson?
" Oh no of course not Helen! He's a permanent now!
— I see! Where are you going, by the way?
" Oh we are just going to visit my ex you know, Helen, dear. He's in town for a week. I'm sooo looking forward to seeing him tonight, right David? ["Yes Cathy you are."]
— So have a nice day Cathy!
" Thank you Helen, so nice meeting you, see you later. Come on David, let's go!
———————-
Natural appearance.— Shaving male body hair should be discouraged. Body hair is a natural part of the male body and should not be removed. Men should always look the way mother (!) nature intended. Yes some men are very hairy, but there will always be women who enjoy the sight. I may be one of those by the way.
[edited 11/04/18] Talking about men.— We’d most certainly talk about men open and freely whenever we want to. Even in your presence, while you are standing in front of us naked and exposed, we’d talk about the way you perform as a lover. We’d spare no details, your strong points and your weaknesses (there may be a few). We sit and watch and listen as one of us describes how you perform, touching you if necessary to clarify a point, and answering any questions about you that may come up.
Conclusion.— It would be a wonderful and peaceful world. You guys are so nice to look at. You are fun and exciting to play with you. Please let me say it again: you are nice to look at when you are naked.
