Maybe its not for me afterall...

while I have had an extremely beneficial relationship with the right guy who really made me feel great, Im realizing I was a lot luckier then I realized. I'm just sick of wasting my time talking to people who dont want to meet, or immediately ask me about sex and especially anal?? Like Im not against it but its weird how its always about anal right??

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HootyTheNightOwl

It's hilarious to flip the tables and ask them about getting plugged or pegged (even when it's not your thing) though, try it and watch how quickly things turn cold.

christylee · 36-40

@HootyTheNightOwl I have never tried this and I think all my daddies would be having too much of an ego to even allow me to.

HootyTheNightOwl

@christylee The ego point is exactly what I'm getting at. It's remarkable just how fast they shut down any mention of them being on the receiving end of what they want to give out.

In fairness, though, they shouldn't be asking for anything they wouldn't be prepared to do themselves.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Why can’t everyone just appreciate getting to know someone before jumping in bed???

MaybelChong · 46-50, F

@Quimliqer Too many of them these days. All they want is to get inside my pants.

christylee · 36-40

@Quimliqer Seems like something too much to ask for in todays standard.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

It's right up there with doing a threesome on a lot of guy's wish lists.

christylee · 36-40

@DunningKruger Why anal when u got pussy. That sounds gay

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Firedragonco2 · M

I would have to say that getting to know someone first and building a relationship makes everything so much better, my boyfriend and I took our time before we had sex. We have been together for a little over 10 years now and we still act like we first met.
A relationship built on sex is not a relationship.

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

With some guys it’s all about weird shit, not that I’m saying anal is weird, but immediately asking about it is weird.

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