friendzone help

recently became friends with a girl and started dating her. I’ve never gotten a girl on her level before and I can’t even describe how attracted I am to her she’s everything I’ve ever wanted in a girlfriend. then she meets this other guy and tells me she doesn’t want to date me exclusive anymore. last month she gave me “the talk” basically saying that she wants to only date him exclusively because she really likes him more and boom just like that he’s her new boyfriend. the last 30 days have been so painful, I just can’t seem to let go. I text her everyday and she fills me in with all the little details about their brand new budding relationship. why can’t I be the boyfriend!!? god

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InfoTunaBotTheReturn

Yeah, time to cut that one loose. She can't be blamed for her feelings changing but I'm not sure that she necessarily handled things the best. Nevertheless, it is what it is. It's clearly too painful for you to be around her right now and there's no particular value in keeping her in your life. You don't want her as a friend, you want more than that. Don't accept for less than you want. Just move on and get her out of your life and your sight.

ilovelexustoyota · 41-45, MNew

well I would still be friends with her..

1490wayb · 61-69, M

you are seen as too nice, like me. smoke a carton cigarettes a day, grow your hair long, and cover yourself with tattoos. keep beer and pills on hand for them too

Frostcloud · F

heartbreak is one of the worst feelings in the world, i'm sorry you're going through it. but she's not interested in dating you and she's made it clear. you're not interested in being her friend- it's time to move on in your life without her

ReptilianFromPlanetCrush · M

Sometimes, it just aint meant to be. Time to move on.

thisguy20 · 46-50, M

Rejection sucks
Best thing you can do for you mental and emotional well-being is turn the rejection her her by walking away

TexChik · F

You are only proving to her that she made the right choice. Stop texting her. Delete her info and leave her alone. I'm sorry it hurts. Becoming a stalker is not going to help . Move on.

Punxi · F

The texting everyday has to stop my friend.

I don't say this with malice but you're projecting yourself as if you're a simp.

Find self respect and let her go.

Plenty girls out there.

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