I’m a positive person but it’s amazing how…

It’s amazing how people that you try to genuinely talk to and understand what’s going on with them can become a stain on your humanity. No fault of your own. I guess the lesson is keep on fighting the battles regardless the negative

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Sandcastler · 22-25, M

yeah man helping people is good but you can't help people if you don't help yourself first, and sometimes that involves not helping people tooo much ey

gdon39 · 46-50, M

TY. I have begun to get back to my centered place. I appreciate your help @Sandcastler

smiler2012 · 56-60

{@gdon] perhaps they have personal reasons to be pessimistic or they are just a genuine misery guts and can not see good in anything . 🤷‍♂️ whatever the case do not get them bring you down and always keep your cheery positive optimistic outlook of things

sspec

Just let them Be. Move on with your life.

gdon39 · 46-50, M

@sspec Thank you for the positive reassurance. I really appreciate you.

sspec

@gdon39 Its mutual but for the coffee posts. You can drink tea too sometimes.

okaybut · 56-60, M

I think the fault is your judgement.

gdon39 · 46-50, M

That’s a bit hard to swallow but I definitely understand and think you are on it @okaybut

okaybut · 56-60, M

@gdon39 Thanks, I had the same feelings as you and then realized that I was trying to communicate with others from my point of view and not from their world. I tried to appreciate those things that they valued and made them unique, to take pleasure in them even if they were outside of my way of thinking. Not having to be be best friends with them...just to communicate with them and try to gain some possible new insight.

Wantingwidow · 56-60, F

Never give up, never surrender

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

And then some people, when you try to connect with them on a genuine human level, become afraid or confused because they feel like they don't deserve that, so they do what they can to push you away. Then it becomes a serious effort to try to connect with them, but if you don't keep trying, then they'll have proven themselves right in their own mind.

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