@SW-User No that meme Shows an unattractive man as the catfish.
Why are you coming for me? I just saw you on a post of and 18-21 F account and her profile picture is of a 12 year old and she implies she is having sex with her brother and you told her to have fun.
In that case I am not sure who is behind that account but you seem to be okay with underage incest.
I can’t imagine sexting ever being top-notch. I assume I’m just too difficult. 😂 I think if I were to engage in it, though, I’d have to be pretty sure I knew who I was talking to. Otherwise, I find I like best feeling I know a person is the real thing, but I can have pleasant interactions with no idea whatsoever.
@JustNik sexting is perhaps an extension of regular conversation, where the imagination slowly takes over from the reality. I suppose it depends on the person whether it’s grounded in reality or not. For me, that would entail a lot of trust. Perhaps more than can be reasonably given here. Otherwise, yes, good conversation is welcome with anyone
Ive asked questions about users being 'real' or not . And it seems the userbase is divided. Some ....only like real profiles . While for others ....it doesnt matter. They see most of online life as a fantasy anyway.
@OogieBoogie I suppose if someone wants to fully embrace the fantasy of online life…but no, I need any interactions I have here grounded in some sort of reality. To each their own
@Ghostinthemachine it is each to their own. I mean, iOrbix had a whole feed dedicated to users online fantasy personas ...so evidently there is a market for it.
Me...im the same as you . I kinda need reality . Im tired of fakery, lies and all that pretense in real life, i dont need more .
Fantasy is fun, but you cant live in it . And these places are addictive: they can alter your mindest and you dont even realsie . And before you know it....youre addicted to an identity that was never real.
@OogieBoogie maybe the issue is there are many reasons why people come here, both for real connections and escapism, and SW just wants as many users as possible, so it’s catered to both, while not really fully satisfying anyone. I don’t know, but I agree, fantasy without some grounding in reality can lead to a slippery wormhole of hurt