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It’s like a piece of me is missing… stolen even 🇦🇺

When I was around 13, so 1999, my dad was visiting England and we were down the local pub.

It was in Luton and called “The Heron”

While having a pint in the pub garden, kids ran from place to place.

Brit rock was playing in the background.

Men had a whole day out on 20 pounds and could spoil women with a drink.

Everyone was laughing.

British sunny days weren’t empty and pointless like they are now.

Everybody had an objective.

Everybody could go down the pub.

A few years later, It was closed down to be converted into a Tesco Express.

When I told my dad he said

“when the pubs are gone, England is finished. Old people will be lonely, young people won’t meet. Everyone will be stuck in front of the TV waiting to die”

I thought he was exaggerating and laughed it off.

But think of England only 20 years ago compared to the dystopian hell hole it’s become today.

The Pub was the corner stone of British society in the best way.

Yes. There were alcoholics and yes there was the odd scrap.

Better than lonely drug addicts and stabbing like we have today.

Everything is worse and dad was right.

When I was slightly older, 18/19, I used to spend long summers days at a pub in Chistlehurst Kent when visiting my aunt.

Sunny? Pub.

It was right next to a lake.

We’d feed the ducks.

Buying drinks all day long with a pocket full of change.

You will never understand how Britain used to feel unless you lived it.

How beautiful it used to be.

But the pubs are all gone.

And Dads gone.

Englands gone.

It all just breaks my heart!
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Kind of like diners that served coffee and older people would get together and have long conversation, helped them to get out of the house and have social interaction. Only one diner left in my city, there are small restaurants still but nothing like those old diners.
4meAndyou · F
@cherokeepatti These days, the elderly meet at McDonald's for coffee...or at least my mother did before she died. I was in there getting coffee one morning myself, and started chatting with an elderly couple who were having the pancake breakfast. They said they could afford to go there for breakfast twice a week, but also mentioned they couldn't afford to go anywhere else.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@4meAndyou McDonald’s doesn’t have the same atmosphere as diners did. The younger people seem to be loud or lacking manners around here in McDonald’s. Last time I was in one it irked me. Was with the boy getting him something and that was several years ago. Braums (based in the next county) would be a good place, it is a large chain started out as an ice cream store but started building restaurants with the ice cream too. It’s popular with the older group but it gets too crowded at most of them especially at mealtimes.