My biggest fear (well not biggest) is ending up with someone who's fun to start with then gets comfortably boring.

Spousal murder for life insurance takes care of that problem.

Relatable.

I honestly don't know how long is long enough to date someone.

I thought I was with someone that matched me or was willing to continue embracing the life we were creating.

But when in an environment they were used to he assimilated into, I guess the old version of himself, before me. That wasn't cool.

I was bored, isolated & made to feel redundant.

You will meet people and the best thing is you know what you don't want use that as your guide, but also don't beat yourself up if you find out things weren't quite as you hoped.

Just keep it moving.

That's what happened to me. He ended up a lot of things that he didn't expose before. Be careful. You are awesome and some will feed off your fun energy because they don't have their own, until you're drained.

That is a shared fear among a lot of people. But it's tempered by the fact that the ones who were scared of being around boring people became boring themselves.

One thing that helps out is you're not a littl'un anymore. As people get to around thirty you sorta see the personality they're stuck with for the rest of their life.

Ouch 🤕

Everyone is fun til you get to know them, trick is to meet someone and just have fun, nothing serious

I always tell people to get to know them reeaaaallllll good cause I’ve seen it happen too many times

My fear is to be at the other end of that fear :(

With women or most women is a money a must thing, you need money to have fun. That's not a wife material he already has her priorities wrong. Most men aren't marrying and are refusing to be atms. Men are refusing to lose half of their possession because a quarrelsome and nagging wife.

Is this how you gonna reject me? 👀

At least they would never be bored with you! You rock the casbah, Hijab!

Idk people change you may like it

How about someone already boring😏

They only get boring if you stop loving them.

This is why you randomly shove a peeled banana in their face when they least expect it. Keeps the flame alive.

Boring is the way of life. Excitement is an effort.