I wish someone would talk about me the same way Dolly Parton talks about Jolene 😍😂

Sometimes I feel like the hidden message of this song is “please don’t take my man… take me instead!”

But in all seriousness yea girls go through that. I think at least most of us have had that one person who makes us feel a bit insecure. And it’s not anything to be ashamed of. Jealousy, insecurity it’s all a part of being human. I think society makes it worse when it makes it seem like everyone’s supposed to be all confident and happy all the time. So people, even guys, falsely feel alienated for going through something that everybody else goes through or has dealt with. All because there’s this unspoken rule that we aren’t supposed to talk about it. “Insecurity is a sign of weakness”. And they start changing things about themselves, pushing people away. And it’s sad cause I truly feel like sometimes all it takes is someone to say “It’s okay, we all go through it, it’s perfectly normal” Emotions ate built into our humanity and I don’t think any of them are inherently bad. It’s about how we handle them and it starts with honesty with yourself and others. I know it’s easier said than done. Being vulnerable just might be hardest thing anyone has to do but it’s important to remember that to be vulnerable is to be human. Our vulnerabilities are there wether we admit them or not. If we hide them we’re locked in the darkness always forced to cover up and be on guard 24/7. But if you can admit to your vulnerabilities and own them nobody can use it against you. They can still try but won’t succeed. You’re free to just be you. And damn this wasn’t supposed to be this long I just started thinking 😂 But one thing I’ll add is if anyone can take someone you love, especially easily, then they were never really yours. Someone who truly loves you ain’t going nowhere 💯 If people want to walk away from you, kindly show them where the door is.

Anyway here’s the song if you haven’t heard it but I’m sure most of us have by now lmao

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