I wish someone would talk about me the same way Dolly Parton talks about Jolene šš
Sometimes I feel like the hidden message of this song is āplease donāt take my manā¦ take me instead!ā
But in all seriousness yea girls go through that. I think at least most of us have had that one person who makes us feel a bit insecure. And itās not anything to be ashamed of. Jealousy, insecurity itās all a part of being human. I think society makes it worse when it makes it seem like everyoneās supposed to be all confident and happy all the time. So people, even guys, falsely feel alienated for going through something that everybody else goes through or has dealt with. All because thereās this unspoken rule that we arenāt supposed to talk about it. āInsecurity is a sign of weaknessā. And they start changing things about themselves, pushing people away. And itās sad cause I truly feel like sometimes all it takes is someone to say āItās okay, we all go through it, itās perfectly normalā Emotions ate built into our humanity and I donāt think any of them are inherently bad. Itās about how we handle them and it starts with honesty with yourself and others. I know itās easier said than done. Being vulnerable just might be hardest thing anyone has to do but itās important to remember that to be vulnerable is to be human. Our vulnerabilities are there wether we admit them or not. If we hide them weāre locked in the darkness always forced to cover up and be on guard 24/7. But if you can admit to your vulnerabilities and own them nobody can use it against you. They can still try but wonāt succeed. Youāre free to just be you. And damn this wasnāt supposed to be this long I just started thinking š But one thing Iāll add is if anyone can take someone you love, especially easily, then they were never really yours. Someone who truly loves you aināt going nowhere šÆ If people want to walk away from you, kindly show them where the door is.
Anyway hereās the song if you havenāt heard it but Iām sure most of us have by now lmao
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