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We’ve all been ghosted at some point

Sometimes it hurts sometimes it doesn’t

The real question is “is ghosting actually rude”

Or do people have expectations In regards to how the conversation “should” go

Is the other person rude for expecting person one to respond?

Should person 1 have explained to person 2 why they ghosted them? Do they have the right not to?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F Best Comment
I don’t want to give my energy to people that would leave without a thought so I would prefer if they just went
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@DeluxedEdition thank you for BC 💜

Nothing is rude if it is taken lightly but unfortunately sensitivity is not acquired trait. Some are born sensitives.

Yet, no one ought to explain no one. Just do wat you intend and leave.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@sspec this is deep 😳
@DeluxedEdition try not to get drowned.
SW-User
I've thought a lot about 'ghosting' over time.
There was a time I had an expectation that I should not be ghosted by those I consider friends and had a regular conversation with online.
Over time and at this point, I feel that is an unrealistic and an unfair expectation from me. And it is an expectation set based on how the consistency makes me feel.
Truth is, people come from all sorts of places with all sorts of responsibilities, they have their own troubles - and no one should feel obligated to be there constantly so I feel better about it.
And ideally, if they return and we had a close bond, I should be able to pick up again should they also want it.
VampireOfDesire · 26-30, M
I forgive you for ghosting me when i ask for butt pics.

I deserve it
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@VampireOfDesire 💀 ⚰️ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
I think it depends on how long you’ve been communicating.
Wol62 · 51-55, M
Good point(s).

Perhaps only they, who are doing the ghosting, can answer them.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@Wol62 have you ever been ghosted or ghosted someone?
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@DeluxedEdition No and no.
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
I figure they just have things going on. I just hope that everything is ok, and drop them a message when I can, checking on them
SW-User
It's only happened to me once and tbh it was for the best.

In fact, anyone who wants to do that should go right ahead. I don't want to be wasting time on them.

 
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