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It’s hard trying to keep friends

I made a friend and we have been hanging out, I started noticing things nowadays that I really didn’t like, for one she talks way too much to the point she won’t let you get a word in , if you stop her she has this look on her face .. also she is very inconsiderate with time where I waiting an hour for her. At this point I just told myself this is not someone I want to associate with. This female doesn’t work but wants to hang out , , we hung out with acquaintances of mine and noticed she was lying about some things she told me in private and literally I had food I cooked she ate almost everything so selfishly.. I stood with almost nothing...that was a deal breaker I’m glad I noticed this. That is a person I cannot truly move up in life with . I value loyalty and respect, I will not settle for anyone just because I want companionship.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
I don't try to be close with people anymore, so I don't even attempt to make many new friends.
Pillowtalk714 · 31-35, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry I hope you can find some good friends💜
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@Pillowtalk714 I already do. They're the only people I let be close to me.
Pillowtalk714 · 31-35, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry that’s so good💜 wel I hope I find some lollll
Renkon · 36-40, M
Good decision. When it comes to friendship choose wise and choose fast. Don't waste time in hope. Especially when you are at a certain point in life.

Also remember there are no perfect companion. Only people whose flaws and virtues we can work with perfectly.

Ps : On very rare occasion, when you lucky stars align perfectly and God is smiling on you.....you meet that almost perfect being. I can testify on that. But that's very rare.
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
sounds like a normal filtration process. we have tons of aquaintances, from those we choose who we want to actually hang out with and those we don't, from those friends we choose the one we really like the most and make them close friends. many times I've given a test run to some aquaintances to see if we could be actual friends and concluded that no, we won't.

 
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