How is your broken/cracked/cold relationship with family affecting your self worth and the interactions and relationships you have outside?

How are you coping with it? How are you going to make it better for you and others?

For me, it's like Frozen haha XD
With one person standing outside the door and singing "Do you want to be build a snow man?" to someone who would not let them in. Until that person got tired. And now, there is no more music.
And the door remains closed.