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I Hate Psychopaths

but they love me

what on earth do I do to have them around me all the time

am I too kind and am I too much of a pushover for wanting love

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taylababy · F

The reason why you attract those type of men (jerks -or- men with rage -or-narcissists -or- borderline -or- sociopaths) is cause they prey on girls that they can control. They prey on a sweet, kind, submissive personality type.

You need to recognize the signs and red flags then run. You need to cultivate a very strong personality so they know after 5 mins of conversation that u're not the type they can control, independent minded. If you only attract those type of jerks it is because they see your vulnerability. Even if you try to hide it. But whether you attract them or not, the key is in your hand. You make the decision. They can't use you if you don't put up with them, they can't control you if you don't let them. If you see red flags don't stay with them, leave fast. 🙂 A man can only do to you what you put up with. Don't forget that.

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revenant · F

@ThePerfectUsername i have to be reprogrammed

ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M

[quote]i have to be reprogrammed[/quote]
OMG! That sounds so ominous when you say it! 😱 The good news is though that it's you who chooses which program to run this time, not someone else. 🤗
@revenant

SW-User

@taylababy Yup that is right. Narcissists-sociopath types go for the "kind" submissive receptive types, ya have to become awares of that. Looks like ya are 👍️

quitwhendone · M

Try a sociopath instead.

Ok, I shouldn't joke. Do you look for men (or women) who you feel are damaged mentally? Do you feel more comfortable with them?

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Whiterosesociety

@revenant Do you feel pulled to make hurting-guys ...feel better?

Women with a rescue complex are often victimized by these types for obvious reasons. These men can smell out when they can exploit someone for their own selfish ends, and make you feel helpless and clueless at that... (it works for the opposite sex too)

Did you feel as though your parents only appreciated you if you had to sacrifice a lot to love them?

revenant · F

@Whiterosesociety uhu no i do not

revenant · F

@Whiterosesociety i could see that in my ex though

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

pushovers & pacifists tend to attract psychos more than anyone...🤔

revenant · F

@wildbill83 all my life i have been a sort of libertarian

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

it's one of those "curse & a blessing" things. Great personality to have, but people will walk all over you.

My parents are like that, and it pisses me off every time someone tries to take advantage of their kindness/helpful nature

revenant · F

@wildbill83 humans can be such rabid dogs

User41 · 36-40, M

In my experience...

Your probably also a psychopath

revenant · F

@User41 ok and how so

User41 · 36-40, M

okay... don’t get all pissy pants here.

Idk you. Maybe you’re just a victim of bad relationships... thats a possibility.

But often people who complain about having bad relationships are bad at having relationships.

@revenant

revenant · F

@User41 just tell me

Summersrain · 51-55, F

Posting stuff like that is like advertising for them

revenant · F

@Summersrain i thought about that alright

yeronlyman · 51-55, M

How do know they are psychopaths. Have they been diagnosed formally?

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revenant · F

@yeronlyman people who take sheer pleasure in hurting you and have that kind of smile

yeronlyman · 51-55, M

@revenant that sounds awful

revenant · F

@yeronlyman it is
you see in their smiles

th3r0n · 41-45, M

I know that feeling too well...bad people around you wanting to take advantage...but our lives are not about us, they're about Jesus, and whether or not they know it those bad people need him.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

No. You're just not able to identify users and abusers. It's a mindset.

revenant · F

@Zonuss the victor takes it all mindset

revenant · F

@Zonuss it is a mindset i encounter all the time.the victor takes it all but it does not matter if they are stupid to the extreme
means justify the ends

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