He's definitely a narcissist
Everything I love, he has to 💩 on.
If I like a particular food? He says it's terrible. If I like a TV show? He has to make a nasty demeaning remark about it every time he walks in while I'm watching it. If I like a male celebrity, he finds everything "wrong" with the guy and tells me about it. If I'm watching a mafia documentary or movie (my faves), he has to come in and start slandering Italians. So I'll turn the channel to something HE likes, just to stop him from complaining, and what does he do??? He starts chattering about bullshit he's looking at on his phone, totally ignoring whatever is on TV. 😡
And GOD FORBID if I don't share his love of the stuff HE likes. 🙄 Then I'm just poor uncultured "Tennessee Trash" (yes he actually called me that) with no taste.
I'm so exhausted and beaten down from living with this man. I swear if I ever get the chance to live alone again, I'll probably die a hermit because I don't want to risk letting another narcissist into my life. I'm far too damaged and will never trust anyone again.
If I like a particular food? He says it's terrible. If I like a TV show? He has to make a nasty demeaning remark about it every time he walks in while I'm watching it. If I like a male celebrity, he finds everything "wrong" with the guy and tells me about it. If I'm watching a mafia documentary or movie (my faves), he has to come in and start slandering Italians. So I'll turn the channel to something HE likes, just to stop him from complaining, and what does he do??? He starts chattering about bullshit he's looking at on his phone, totally ignoring whatever is on TV. 😡
And GOD FORBID if I don't share his love of the stuff HE likes. 🙄 Then I'm just poor uncultured "Tennessee Trash" (yes he actually called me that) with no taste.
I'm so exhausted and beaten down from living with this man. I swear if I ever get the chance to live alone again, I'll probably die a hermit because I don't want to risk letting another narcissist into my life. I'm far too damaged and will never trust anyone again.
46-50, F
