Should you ever apologize to a narcissist?

I've wronged the narcissist and I'm paying for it...

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It doesn't matter who they are, it only matters what I did.

If I'm wrong, I'll apologize without any further thoughts.

bittersweethermit · 36-40, F

@NotSureAboutMyUserName Sounds fair. But then you'll only make him feel superior that way

@bittersweethermit It doesn't matter.

Apology is not about that.

@NotSureAboutMyUserName The moment you apologize to a narcissist they will use it against you, badly, never apologize to one.