How do I know if my BF is really a narcissist?

Whenever I see posts about narcissistic people my bf has all of the qualities. How do I know if he’s really a narcissist? What would he do? I don’t just wanna put a label on him but I think he has it. Is there anything narcissists do to get help? Medication or anything?

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Narcissists can get professional help but it's rare that they admit they need help. If they keep blaming you then they will never seek help or change, they will just enjoy abusing you.

If your boyfriend makes you scared /threatened / if he hurts you

Don't search for a label. He's not good for you. That's all you need to know.