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I'm free from my narc boyfriend

So as soon as he went to work, i pack some of my stuff in the car and left, no more control and emotional abuse from him.

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Grateful4you · M

Congratulations! It takes a lot of will power to break the cycle of abuse. For far too many it often takes DECADES I think you deserve the best in life. I wish you the very best love.

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

He passed away from a heart attack on the 31 July

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@thedreamer1975 I'm not surprised. Many abusers don't have anything else going on in their lives, so when the people they're abusing finally get fed up and leave, it's basically like they're losing their whole world. Not your problem, and definitely not your fault.

496sbc · 36-40, M

@thedreamer1975 wow karma got him big

Virgo79 · 61-69, M

Im proud of you for all you've done🤗🤗
Been a long haul

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@Virgo79 yeah it definitely has

MissyChrissy · 18-21, F

Boyfriend? Arent you a lesbian? 🤔

SW-User

Good for you
You are much better off

looking4thesun · M

I thought you were a lesbian???

stound

This post seems wildly different if you follow traditional abbreviations and dont notice the category. Congrats. Good job.

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stound

@SW-User delusions of competence in dealing with the illicit drug trade?
... okay, wait this does kinda check out.

SW-User

@stound Seems like being a narc is a great job for a narc

stound

@SW-User this trAin goes both ways on the tracks. I think them mathy sorts might call this a tautology.

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

Thankyou all

nevergiveup · M

Good for you. I did that 24 years ago with my now x wife. Best thing i ever did

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thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@nevergiveup that's true

nevergiveup · M

@thedreamer1975 If you ever feel like a chat PM me

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@nevergiveup thankyou i will do

JustGoneNow ·

I’m confused. Profile says homosexual.

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JustGoneNow ·

@thedreamer1975 I get it. Life is kinda complicated, sometimes. 🌸

https://similarworlds.com/attraction/lesbian/3761800-My-journey-has-been-long-unclear-and-often-very

JustGoneNow ·

@thedreamer1975 good luck to you, girl. Live your truth. Be safe and be well.

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@JustGoneNow thankyou

AwakeningConfession221122

That’s exactly how I left mine lol. It’s the best feeling ey?

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@AwakeningConfession221122 yeah it definitely is

AwakeningConfession221122

@thedreamer1975 the starting again is the hard part but it’s breeze realising that you’re free from it.

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@AwakeningConfession221122 yeah im in a happier place right now

Teslin · M

So sorry you have been through so much in your lifetime. Things will be better going forward for you.

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@Teslin lets hope so

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

He passed away from a heart attack 11 days after i left.

ExperienceDLT · M

@thedreamer1975 fiding out you was a lesbian killed em thats tragic

SW-User

Your boyfriend is a narc? 🤣

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@SW-User ex boyfriend now

SW-User

@thedreamer1975

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@SW-User why is that funny, emotional abuse is not something to be laughed at.

Northwest · M

And make sure he can't contact you or find you.

thedreamer1975 · 46-50, F

@Northwest he can't he's totally blocked

496sbc · 36-40, M

Thats really sad. Why do guys do this shit

SlippingAway

Good for you leave him in the rearview window

ExperienceDLT · M

Lesbians have bfs? 🤔

looking4thesun · M

@ExperienceDLT seems so. But i think i would have opened with that. Like "I left my bf because he is narcissistic and oh by the way, i am a lesbian "😁