Narcissistic Relationships Create a Spiritual Injury [I Want To Spread Narcissism Awareness]
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All of this is true...and the worst of them out there know how to hide what they do so well, make themselves look like spotless angels to others, and make their victims feel like they are the devil himself!...they are full of poison and malice and inside their hearts...
...their victims have a right to speak about what happened to them, even if it is only so they can start to try to heal from the horror of it all!
...their victims have a right to speak about what happened to them, even if it is only so they can start to try to heal from the horror of it all!
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berangere · 80-89, F
@Mandalorian Yes narcs are diabolical,they don't think the same way as the rest of us and they do not have a conscience nor remorse for the harm they inflict on others,this is what is called evil and they are very good at passing themselves off as the victim.This is why you should find a counsellor who can help you on the road to recovery by letting you express what you feel, as unqualified people cannot fully understand how you could be feeling after going through such abuse and gaslighting,it also distresses people and they want to get away when they themselves have had relationships with normal people who never harmed them and find it hard to believe that some people can be so cruel and destructive to other human beings.You cannot keep on ruminating on all those things,you need to express those feeling to someone who can put them in perspective and give you the support you need,someone who will believe you,someone who is not dismissive or comes out with platitudes like "you must forgive and forget" or "get over it" for example, because basically they just do not want to hear what you want to tell them and then they will start avoiding you.
@berangere this is true...after a while you start to distrust people altogether and isolate yourself...people say you are bitter, and to a degree they are right, which aids the abusers narrative...
...there was I time I had all my groceries delivered because I would break out in uncontrollable sweats and shaking just from being in crowded places...it still happens now, but not so frequently...
...it affects your personal relationships, turning you into an antisocial type, which makes people think you're a fkn abusive asshole!
...the irony of that is unbearable!
...there was I time I had all my groceries delivered because I would break out in uncontrollable sweats and shaking just from being in crowded places...it still happens now, but not so frequently...
...it affects your personal relationships, turning you into an antisocial type, which makes people think you're a fkn abusive asshole!
...the irony of that is unbearable!
berangere · 80-89, F
@Mandalorian Yes relationships good and bad can really affect who you are and who you can become,I hope you are getting treatment for your depression,I am glad you are getting over your fear of being surrounded by people in crowded places,but as I said you cannot do this all on your own you need professional support to help you heal and restore your confidence,because there are nice people out there,I never got any help from my family (so called) but I got help from good people when I needed it,sadly I did end up wasting 7 years of my life with another narcissist but I left him regardless of his threats of suicide and that was one of the best things I ever did,as I would have no life now had I not, as they take everything of value away from you. Please find a counsellor who understands narcissistic abuse and will give you the support you need,we can find them now,unlike years ago when narcissists could fool the best of them.
BalmyNites · F